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Moving On | Lisa Nikole | A Year Ago

Wednesday, February 24th, 2010

Wow, does time fly…

It’s been a little over a year since I moved to Missouri.

I came here crying so much that when my husband and I went to have utilities turned on or open up accounts I could not stop crying and I knew they thought he abducted me or something, no jokes, it was pretty bad!

I determined never to make a friend and felt I was losing every friend I ever had. I left my daughter and her family in Ohio and that,was something that devastated me for a while. But I had to go on and thank God for the internet and webcams… we made it through and in that separation both of us learned more lessons.

A dear friend asked me about my story, moving my business and making a success in just one year. She prompted this blog!

So the story is like this..I lived in Ohio most of my life, my husband got a transfer to Missouri and we decided as a family, this is the road we wanted to travel. My daughter still lived in Ohio so I knew my Ohio based business would be fine.

Starting over was not the adventure I wanted in life, but as I look back now, I am so glad for the move and the new friendships and the amazing people I have been exposed to.

Sometimes living in a small town you forget there is a great big world out here and there is so much to learn, if you just open the door and step outside, sure a move of this size is NOT for everyone, and I thought for sure I was that everyone, but turns out… I had a lot to learn, even in my own attitudes that I thought were so finite, I was exposed to things that made me take a second look at the condition of my heart!

The first thing we did was find a church, we knew that was the most important thing to our survival and it did not take long before a door was opened up and I now attend the most amazing church, filled with the most awesome people in the world! Here’s the link if you want to check them out: COTR

I started to get my paperwork together, it’s important that when you are starting up, or moving on, to make sure you do it right, don’t play around with things that will come back to get you later, so I found out exactly what I needed to do, local, city and state and started all over again.

Starting over gave us the chance to change our name from what it was Creations Photography (talk about a dated name) to Lisa Nikole. We never did like the name Creations but it’s where we started, we’re just happy where we ended!

Social Networking made all the difference in the world. IF, you are a business person and you shun social networking, you’re going to be lost shortly in a world that no longer exist. Some fear the internet, but I say bring it on. As much bad as you can say about it, I can say good with proof!

I started to connect with Saint Louis photographers and even hosted a first photographer get together, which by the way, we will be doing again, this year!

I attended one bridal show and spoke with many other people about business and visited local bridal shops, florists and the Chamber of Commerce.

The doors were opened up and jobs just started to come, at first it was pretty even with Ohio, but this year I can say Missouri has broken wide open for us and I’m loving meeting all the amazing couples that have contacted us to be their wedding photographer.

That’s the short story *smiles*… and here’s the dramatic ending….

As I write this blog, my daughter and her family are traveling across Ohio, Indiana and Illinois to make their home in Missouri.

Don’t worry Ohio, we’ve not forgotten you, we’ve never been one state photographers we shoot all over this amazing world. But for us to be together again means only one thing…

Look out Missouri!!!! :-)

Pro.. Procras.. Procrasti… Procrastination

Friday, September 4th, 2009

Procrastination

Procrastination is described as a behavior, which is characterized by the deferment of actions or tasks to a later time.

I don’t procrastinate, not often, hardly at all, okay maybe….never! No, honest! I remember one time recently that I did NOT want to pay bills, I literally would have cleaned my kitchen floor with a toothbrush before paying the bills. It’s the first time I ever experienced procrastination.

I did not like the way it felt!

I don’t even procrastinate in my thoughts or deeds, I’m generally too fast on both and have been learning to sllloowww down the process just a bit. I get attached to fast, hurt too easy and just speak it how it is! But, then again, you know where I’m coming from, don’t you!

I’m the first one to jump in to offer help or start a campaign. First one to offer assistance and the first one to come to the aid of anyone in need. It’s who I am. It’s what I do. and…

I do it well!

I was asked once, how do you do it?

I really thought everyone was pretty much organized and procrastination was a minor affliction some people had. Until I started to really listen to people.

I think my anti procrastinationalism (yes I made up a new phrase) is really just a form of organization. See, I’m also SUPER organized. I call it anal organized but not as much as my friend Bethany who color codes her socks in her drawers in little cubicles for each pair (that is just insane Bethany!!!)

I have an order in which everything is done and a file for everything that I have. I have lists to complete and there is nothing more rewarding then scratching off an item on the list!

If you’re organized you really can’t procrastinate much, really!

There are immediate things I have to do right away: a phone call, an email, dinner, family time etc.

Then there are things that are planned: Editing, shopping, making dinner, laundry…etc.

Then there are goals: that is my amazing long term lists. I’ve got them for business and person. I’ve even got a list of blogging ideas!
My life is so busy that if I let one thing slip under the radar it’s a goner. I most likely would not get back to it and it would be a passed opportunity or a missed adventure.

You never know what a day will hold, so I make sure I am ready to handle whatever comes my way! I look expectantly to every day and I know each day holds so many opportunities, so I make sure I don’t miss any of them!

So, with open arms I great each new day with a mental and physical list. I answer all emails, tweets and Facebook. I reply to all the blogs that need my attention. I read all my newspapers and answer all my phone calls (my family will disagree with this)

The reason I answer all emails right away is three-fold. I personally love a quick response, so I love to make sure when people write to me, they get my attention and I will always respond right away if I am sitting here. If I don’t respond right away, your email is going to get lost in the pile, so I have to reply! My son stood over my computer and said “how do you keep your mailboxes so empty?” I thought that was strange so, I walked to his office and saw his….WHAT!!!! i’d die if I had his mailbox! I have generally no more then 3, or 8 emails pending in my mailboxes. First I look at it like it’s a list. Some I keep there to remind me of upcoming appointments, or trips. Others are there to decide if I want to participate. But there is never unopened mail in my any of my mailboxes. Only when I am traveling do these rules not apply!

My life online and off is pretty much run the same way. I love my lists! If something needs done, it’s done right away.

When I travel I make lists of things I want to accomplish before I go and while I am gone I make lists of things to complete when I get home.

But you asked….How do I do it? This is the best way to explain it.
I write list, I complete things right away and I just don’t procrastinate.

Oh and a by the way…I open my mail right away and sort it, and go through my magazines as soon as possible then toss or give away!

And then… I rest!
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Totally Rad!!!

Saturday, August 22nd, 2009

It’s been over a year I think…maybe a bit more since I was turned on to Totally Rad Actions!

My life changed, for the best! I’m a photographer, it’s what I do and Totally Rad actions help me be a better person and an awesome photographer, PLUS they make my life so much easier!

It started out with Totally Rad, my favorite being “The Grind” out of the 4 actions sets included. Then later on they came out with Totally Rad, the Revenge. What can I say, the battle was on as to what action would go with what and how many cool “recipes” I could make.

With a click of a button, BAM, the desired look I want for an image is there. If I need help there are an array of “recipes” HERE

I can’t say enough about these “actions” that make my life so easy and when Totally Rad asked us to write a blog and link it back to them I’d have a chance to win there new set of Dirty Pictures Textures. ARE you kidding me? YES I’ll blog about you, cuz I love you!

You’re a photographers dream!

My favorite actions has to be….Bullet Tooth and Sparta along with Slice Like A Ninja (sharpen).

Totally Rad! Thank you, for making my day and allowing me a chance to win while sharing the love all about you!

Your awesome and well you know… You’re RAD!!!!!
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Was I Up For The Challenge?

Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

I’d love to give Ron Dawson and his Challenge of “Comparison Kills Creativity” campaign the credit for this, but I can’t! Sorry, Ron!

I’ve always challenged myself, I think it’s that “being the only child” thing!

In fact, just like this weekend, I’m heading to Ohio to shoot a wedding and I write a list and compile more then enough work for me to accomplish before I go, and while I’m there, another list is started of things I need to do when I get back home. It’s how I roll! More then that, it works for me!

I shoot weddings and I LOVE what I do. I’ve been doing it for 7 years and it never NEVER gets old. There is nothing as beautiful as a bride on her wedding day, nor the look on her grooms face when he first sees her walk down the aisle towards him. NOTHING compares to those moments!

I always challenge myself at every wedding, one way or another.

Then came this new challenge, right outside my window. I was dragged…errr moved to Missouri, from the city to the country. Talk about culture shock!!! Now I love nature, but, I think I always enjoyed going to look for it, not it coming up and knocking on my window!

I put up these hummingbird feeders, not sure what to expect as I sat in my office and watched these cute little FAST birds. I wanted to know if I could capture one in motion. Could I do it? I knew I had the right equipment, the right knowledge, but could I do it? The challenge was on.

I went to the internet and saw the crazy lengths people went to to catch the shot. I did not want to do that, I just wanted to hold my camera and “get that shot” So I tried…
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and tried again…
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Good huh? Not really and not good enough… still more… I tried standing in the doorway…
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I thought about giving up…then a friend suggested a wireless remote, so I bought one and I waited, it came, and it was broken..I did order another one, but I wanted to do this hand held. That was my challenge!
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Then it happened. Yesterday my son noticed a “game” the birds were playing in our back yard. One of the hummingbirds with a red neck would hide in the trees and wait for any other hummingbird to come by and take a drink, as soon as they did, this hummingbird would dive bomb them and chase them away. THIS was my opportunity. I got the shot I wanted, the one I felt challenged to get. My inner challenge. I’m not done shooting these little guys, in fact I’m going to get some video of them also..but here is the shot I’ve wanted.
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I’ve never shot anything that moves this fast! I was thrilled when I captured it.

Oh and this little guy, he attached himself to my window last night, so of course he deserved his picture taken also:
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Thanks for listening..Comments are always welcome ;-)

Bridal Show 2.0

Tuesday, March 10th, 2009

On Sunday I had the opportunity to head to St. Peters and participate in the 2009 Bridal Bliss Bridal Expo.

Raquel came in from Ohio and we had a really wonderful time in a new market for us and met a lot of really nice people.

We were located between a Golf Course and a Travel Agent! The smell of the food was amazing and then the people… a non-stop flow of brides, grooms, friends and family! We had some wonderful conversations. We met a family whose brother is getting married, for the first time, he’s 53. We met another woman who between her and her future husband they combined 82 years of marriage, both widowed and going to walk down that aisle one more time, together. And our Texas Groom who wants his engagement pictures outside Busch Stadium in matching Cubs shirts. Yikes!

We met an amazing group of people who shared one thing on that one dayThey were going to marry the love of their lives and they were looking for people to share in that day with them.

I love the Bridal Shows that I am able to talk with the people. I loved listening to your life stories and getting to know you all.

It was great to meet you all. I hope you all enjoyed the show as much as we enjoyed doing it.

To all my new vendor friends, it was nice to meet you, yes even you pole fitness lady! Yes, she was there, with her pole and no I did get on it. But it’s a new big thing in the realm of fitness and fitness parties.

From the smell of the meatballs, that drove Raquel crazy (I ate one and they were GOOD!), to the health and fitness, all around great show.

Thank you St. Peters. See you next year!
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In Ohio, In Missouri, Ohio, Missouri….where am I?

Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

It’s been a crazy couple of days…I was in Ohio on Sunday, but on Monday we headed to Missouri, I’m there right now, but tomorrow I’ll be in Ohio again! Ahhh ain’t moving grand?

I got a bit overwhelmed today by the amount of work it takes to move. I’m amazed at people who have moved more then once…this is just unreal…I stood in my kitchen and just looked around at all the boxes, and all the missing cabinets (not in stock) and thought, WHAT am I going to do… and I broke…my poor husband, who has worked so hard on this house, carpet, ceramic floors, hardwood floors, new paint…

We bought this house as a fixer-uper because we wanted to make it “our” home, we’ve knocked out walls, tore out walls, tore out windows, bathrooms, fireplaces and an entire kitchen, we’ve torn off all the old siding and replaced it, we’ve got a ways to go…but it’s time to move.

I will share space with the dining room for a bit until my office is complete..we need spring to come early this year!

Missouri is amazing, today it was around 65, sunny and all I wore was a sweatshirt to keep me warm. I’m hoping it warms up fast, I’ve heard it does. I’ve got a toddler shoot in January in Troy Missouri, and I’m looking forward to the weddings that will be coming up soon, in Ohio and Missouri!

I’ll keep everyone posted on my move… I’ll have some amazing before/after shots soon. My husband is amazing at what he can do…just wait till you see…..

tomorrow…Ohio :-)

Happy New Year everyone, if you get a chance, leave a comment about your New Years Resolutions, Creations Photography has a $10.00 ITunes card to the one we choose at random!

My NY resolution:
I’ll post them up tomorrow night!