Archive for January, 2010

Arizona | Mission Trip | Lisa Nikole

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010

So, I’m leaving early in the morning and I hope to be blogging while I am there and sharing images, but, sometimes you never know. So… if I don’t post for the next couple weeks, just so you know..

I’m in Arizona with an amazing group of people called Mid West Movement. We’ll be ministering at an Indian Reservation and then down to a Pastors school in Phoenix.

I have no idea what to expect and I purposely did not ask a lot of questions because I wanted to experience it all first hand for myself. Sure, I’ve heard a few things… but I’m anxious to see what is going to happen in me and through me and also through the amazing people I’m blessed to be going with.

So, keep us in your prayers. See you all soon!

It’s last years image, I know….but for now it will have to do! Be well everyone!!!

Branding | What is it, Do I need it | Lisa Nikole

Monday, January 25th, 2010

Okay so who needs to read another blog post about branding..been there done that, right?

So, why are we here? Obviously you love me :-)

Or your still searching for what will make you stand out.

I’ve been shooting pro for 8 years now and up until now I’ve struggled with branding, who am I, what do I stand for and how can I convey that to my clients!

One thing branding is not is copying someone else. I’ve got a few examples, ready?

Jasmine StarLifestyle photographer! I love Jasmine and she’s amazing, if you get a chance to hear her speak, do it! She’s creative and full of energy and when her name got out there and people started to go to her website and amazing blog….all of a sudden something happened….everyone became “Lifestyle Photographers”

Then there is this line:“I capture your event with emotion and passion!” I feel sorry for the person who first coined the phrase, because I don’t know a photographer who does not use it. Hello! I’m guilty of using it too. But I seriously do feel that way, but again, it’s not my tag line!

What I’m trying to point out is… Sure you can be a lifestyle photographer and yes you’ve got emotion and passion but what sets you out to make you YOU?

Who are you and what do YOU have to offer your client? What’s so special about YOU?
you take pretty pictures?
They are all in focus?
You’re cute?
You have a way cool camera?

Seriously? What is it about you that would make someone want to hire you?

They say our market is being flooded with “Uncle Bobs” (an amateur photographer who goes pro, without knowledge or education) because of the tough times, someone says I can take pretty pictures with my Nikon CoolPix’s I can be a pro!

So now we have all these “photographers” charging 500 dollars and saying they are pro, they can capture your day in emotion and passion. What makes them different then you? Price? You better find a new profession!

Okay, now we need to take a deep breath, look into the mirror and stand there for a while and look, then think, what is it about me that makes me special in what I do? Who am I? Why do I love what I do? What makes me great?

Now, get to some quiet place… inside and out, get some paper out and let’s think about YOU! Write what comes to mind. Keep writing till nothing else comes to your mind, or you get silly :-)

Take that paper and put it on your desk and look at it, often. I promise you, it will come. Maybe not in the time you feel you need it, it will come.

Some of us are more capable of discerning who we are faster then others…for me, I’m the others! Takes a while. Till now….

and after a year of thinking, trying, writing, re-writing, asking friends for help, borrowing others quotes… it hit me. I saw a word in a magazine and it just fell into place. Laying on the floor flipping through a magazine and BAM. I found me!

“It’s all about relationships, yours with your family and friends and ours with you”

I hope you all find your own individual branding or sentence for yourself and I hope it brings you all the prosperity but more then that, I hope you are happy with what you are doing. If not, talk to me…I’m sure we can work that out!

It’s what I do, I help people find their passion. Not everyone is a photographer, writer or author. We just need to find where our passion lies, not just our ability to make money, but our ability to soar!

I want you to soar!

Credit for this image goes to Preston Monoc visit his Facebook
oh yeah and I did a little bit of editing to it, too :-)

Helping Hands Healing Hearts | Pacific, Missouri

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

Every so often I am caught listening to a person speak, and maybe I’m not always so interested in the subject, but as I watch the person speak, when I look in their eyes I see it. Then all of sudden my ears perk up and I watch more closely and I listen with intent. I start to study the person speaking and if I can, I ask for my camera to be handed to me so I can capture the moment.

Anyone who knows me, knows, I am all about two things: passion and life stories. Today I experienced something I had to run home and write, before I lost the “feeling” I had.

This morning I got up at 5:55am, yes folks that is AM and it’s Saturday morning I’m talking about. I did not have a wedding to cover today. I was giving of myself. I knew about this outreach for a couple weeks and to be honest, I wasn’t going. I had no reason, I just did not plan to go, but Friday afternoon, I started to change my mind.

The month of December is going to be an amazing month, of giving and learning and experiencing. I’m so excited to be able to share it all with you.

By 8am, we reached our destination and first i want to tell you, it was COLD, not just chilly it was COLD. I was prepared for chilly! We met in a small room and got our orders and we prayed.

I was helping to sort shoes, the others were helping to sort toys. We were in a warehouse that had no heat and every once in a while I said to myself… “I could be home in bed”.

When we got done we met back in this tiny room and Phyllis, the founder of this amazing foundation just started to share. As she spoke, it wasn’t her words that caught my eye at first, it was her body motion, her hand movements and the tone of her voice. After a while I knew I was looking at pure passion. I perked up and really started to study her. Her eyes, her words and her motions. This woman was not only sold out, she was well versed in what she was doing. She not only helped, but she was living her foundation.

Phyllis is the founder of Helping Hands/Healing Hearts. What this ministry does is provide clothing, shoes and toys for foster children and families that just don’t have enough money.

As we head into Christmas she is about to make up “packages” of gifts to be given to way over 1,000 children. She takes donations and purchases items on clearance to use in her warehouse.

When she spoke of the foster children, she drew us in, by telling us the story of her life. I’m going to sum it up for you here but, Please click HERE for more about her foundation.

Phyllis and her husband have 3 children and one day, she found herself with 7 more in her home. She has taken on the raising and caring for her brothers children. There is a long story about this and I don’t want to get into here, but Phyllis learned that even in her own family, children were not getting Christmas presents. Out of a need in her own family, came a foundation to help thousands more.

So today I was humbled a bit, as I froze and thought about my warm bed, I got to hear about children that got moved from home to home every 6 months, that did not get Christmas. I learned that foster children do not get drivers license (whose going to pay the insurance?), and at 18, at any time from that date on a foster family can say to the foster child “there’s the door”. I learned a lot of men on the front lines are foster children. I learned being freezing cold for 4 hours was NOTHING compared to what some children live in a lifetime.

I have to say I am very sure there are amazing foster parents out there, but from what I heard today they are not the norm.

I don’t do this often, but I’m asking all my photographer friends to donate to this amazing foundation, and please do so before Christmas, even a 10 dollar Gift Card can do wonders for someone who would have received nothing at all. There is nothing more rewarding then doing for someone else during the holidays and really anytime.

I am so thankful I went today. I’m wiser and I’m truly blessed for meeting Phyllis and learning more about the world around me and how much we can do if we are passionate about it.

I realize these are 2009 Copyrighted but this blog post was done for a while, just needed to get it posted… Be well!

Christmas | Live Nativity | St. Peters Missouri

Monday, January 18th, 2010

Running a tad late with posts, I had so many posts going on, but I wanted to make sure you all got to see this! How awesome it is. One private comment..yes, Bob, I know! :-)

I have to go to the coolest church on the planet.  I get to photograph the most amazing things and it’s a church that never stops doing and giving and bringing such great things for us to be a part of.

Sunday we had a live nativity.  How cool is that?  Fact is it was very cool, it was freezing cold.  These had to be some of the most dedicated warm blooded people I know.  I’m not sure what the temperature was but, for some reason I did not bring a coat and I was frozen through!  But there were two teams of Nativity people who sat, and acted for people to enjoy.

Not only were the people troopers but so were the camels and sheep and goats and chickens.

I got to look at peoples faces as they saw the live nativity right before their eyes.  Children looked in amazement and I heard the gasps of people as they saw what was put together for them that day.

and it had to be one of the most photographed event on phones that day!

I wish I had sent everyone a picture from my Iphone, I just was not thinking.

My favorite part are the camels.  I love Camels and I’ve been blessed to take pictures of Camels in Israel.  These camels were different, first off they did not spit, and the one camel became my friend, yes I become friends with camels.  Don’t judge :-)

So, below are some of the images of the day!  It was cold but it did not stop anyone from stopping and looking in awe at a very big real reminder of the Nativity.

The Nativity

The Nativity

Shepherd Boy

Shepherd Boy

She literally gasped when she saw the Nativity!

She literally gasped when she saw the Nativity!

He stood there and watched for some time

He stood there and watched for some time

From one generation to the next...

From one generation to the next...

My friend, I think he's trying to smile at me :-)

My friend, I think he's trying to smile at me :-)

The Lindsay Project | Read | See what you would do

Friday, January 15th, 2010

Sometimes things are a given. You turn on the light switch and you don’t even think about it, there is light. You wake up in the morning and jump right into your daily events, not even thinking about it.

But what if you switched that light switch and nothing happened?

What if you placed your feet on the floor of your bedroom and didn’t know what to do next?

Steve Lindsay knows all about that feeling.

Steve sent me a message through Facebook last night. We chatted for a bit and I asked him if he would remember me, he responded “I’ll write your name down”.

Steve asked me to help him. See, it’s part of what I do as a photographer so blessed to be doing what I do. I help people. I refrain from the word mentor. I’m a friend, who directs people to a path that fits them. So Steve asked for help.

He has a story tell, and it’s an amazing story at that.

He has a website and some photography.

He has a goal and he’s working very hard to achieve it.

And for some reason, we connected last night and what I saw moved me, after we talked, I didn’t feel sorry for him. I felt sorry for myself.

Yesterday was an emotional day for me. I’ve been working on a lot of projects and sometimes between the music and images, things will hit. Emotional days for me are not bad, they are amazing and moving and deep and full of drive and passion. and… exhausting.

And then I met Steve and all of a sudden my life so full of things I take for granted got very small and I thought of a life inside a bubble of a mind. A mind created in such a majestic way and that in Steve’s case, got broken.

How could I not help.

I asked Steve to write me a little bit about himself, what he could and what he felt comfortable doing. This is the letter I woke up to:

In order to tell you how life is now, I would have to remember how life was in comparison. I dont.

Imagine that tonight your watching a movie, and everyone that (apparently) cares about you tells you that in this movie, your the main character. You watch the movie and you cant believe how the main character acts at all, and that he would do the things that he does. You feel like everyone is lying to you, and in some ways selfishly like “The Truman Show”

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So here is what I would like you to do. Go to Steve’s link: The Lindsay-Project

Go to Galleries and then “My Story” then just let the slideshow begin (it will, it takes a little time to load)

Take time to look at his work and if you feel so moved, get his story out there.

I’m not big on asking people to support anyone, but Steve could use a few things. Maybe if you feel so impressed to help Steve out, we can do something about that. Let me know and I’ll see what we can do.

There is always a story, always someone that needs help, but you know… I feel this way. I don’t need help right now, right now! So while I am where I am, i want to help people, because a phone all can change any of our lives in an instant. Then we may be the ones needing help.

I asked for a picture of Steve he told me to go ahead and pick one.

and then.. I picked another, because to me, when I think of Steve, this is how I would picture him.

Baby Ren and Family | Troy Missouri

Thursday, January 14th, 2010

I got a call last week to do a baby/family shoot.  I was thrilled to be asked to shoot another baby and when I arrived and met the entire family I knew it would be an awesome shoot.

Some say children are hard to shoot, but I think that is when you try to fold them into your  mold, children need to be children and they have to trust you.  You have to earn that trust first, but listening to them and then talking to them, not at them.

I was met at the door by a new mom, and her older children.  It was nice to see them and of course the questions and comments started.  The middle son kept asking if I was going to give him lots of shots, we later found out, he meant photographs as his mother and I kept wondering why he thought I was going to give him a shot!  Sometimes it’s the adults that think too much :-)

Baby Ren was amazing at 4 weeks old.  His little body compared to that of the rest of his family and yet he had no problem fitting into the shots we had for him.

It was really a fun shoot and the family was awesome.

Thank you for allowing me into your home to shoot and creating some awesome memories for you to treasure!

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The National Anthem | Where does your hand go?

Monday, January 11th, 2010

This past weekend I had the pleasure to photography a gymnastics event in Saint Louis. I’ll be blogging about it in a few days but, while I was there something happened that really caused me to think.

I was there this past Saturday and Sunday. During those two days there were 7 different sessions the national anthem was to be played at the beginning of all 7. It was played five times.

I asked one of the people why? The fiddle player (who was amazing) was there and ready, why did we not have it played? She responded…well… different matches were going to start at different times so we did not want to do it? I looked around the gym.. no one had started to compete and just said that and she said well, “we just need to be flexible”! WE need to be flexible and WE did not want to do it…I wonder who WE were? As far as I could tell, the only people that noticed were a few other photographers gathered around me and WE did not think it was cool!

So the day ended with two sessions not having the anthem played.

The next day I spent those 3 sessions during the anthem being played watching. As the lady played an amazing tune on her electric fiddle, I noticed many of the gymnasts did not put their hand right hand over their chest. The judge standing next to me did not either. Two woman in charge of the event, and ironically one of the WE people who decided not to play the anthem the night before fidgeted and fixed her hair during the song. Another woman pledged her allegiance to the fiddler with the flag behind her. I noticed a muslim woman in the crowd who stood to acknowledge the flag and a military man standing a few feet away saluting. I saw bikers standing at attention with right hands over their heart and I watched a group of about 10 boys with a coach stand directly in front of me with no hand over their heart.

So, is it optional? I tried to recall at the last baseball game did we honor the flag in the same way? or did we just stand. I wondered that once this young generation before me grew up would they even see a need for the national anthem? I wondered how many of them even know what it was or why we put our hand over our heart.

I came home and asked my husband “So, they play the national anthem, where do you put your hand?” He replied “at my side”. I wanted to kick him off the couch!

So, it began, I went to the internet and found this: Wikipedia: The Star Spangled Banner

Included in that article is this:

Custom
United States Code, 36 U.S.C. § 301, states that during a rendition of the national anthem, when the flag is displayed, all present except those in uniform should stand at attention facing the flag with the right hand over the heart; men not in uniform should remove their headdress with their right hand and hold the headdress at the left shoulder, the hand being over the heart; and individuals in uniform should give the military salute at the first note of the anthem and maintain that position until the last note; and when the flag is not displayed, all present should face toward the music and act in the same manner they would if the flag were displayed. Recently enacted law in 2008 allows military veterans to salute out of uniform, as well.[15][16]
However, this statutory suggestion does not have any penalty associated with violations. 36 U.S.C. § 301 Moreover, generations of students who were introduced to flag etiquette prior to its enactment in 1998 were taught that the hand over the heart gesture was exclusively for the Pledge of Allegiance which has had the statutory requirement for much longer.(4 U.S.C. § 4)[citation needed] This behavioral requirement for the national anthem is subject to the same First Amendment controversies that surround the Pledge.[17] For example, Jehovah’s Witnesses are not allowed to stand for or sing the national anthem.[18][19][20]

Here is the link to USC 36

Now my husband made a good point and highlighted for me the papers I left him that I found on the internet and it states:

Moreover, generations of students who were introduced to flag etiquette prior to its enactment in 1998 were taught that the hand over the heart gesture was exclusively for the Pledge of Allegiance which has had the statutory requirement for much longer.(4 U.S.C. § 4)[citation needed] This behavioral requirement for the national anthem is subject to the same First Amendment controversies that surround the Pledge.

I remember being in school and saying the pledge and listening to the anthem over the scratch muffled loudspeaker every morning. I remember placing my right hand over my heart, which I still do to this day. My husband never had to, just to the Pledge.

So, here’s my question to you. Where does your hand go during the singing of the National Anthem?

and so not to make this such a heavy blog post a friend found this for me online last night and I thought I would post it!

Johnny was at his first day of school. The teacher advised the class that each school day starts with the Pledge of Allegiance and instructed them to put their right hand over their heart and repeat after him.
As he starts the recitation he looks around the room, “I pledge allegiance… to the flag…” When his eyes fell on Johnny he found he had his hand over the right cheek of his buttocks.

“Johnny, I will not continue till you put you hand over your heart.”

Johnny replied, “It is over my heart.”

After several attempts to get Johnny to put his hand over his heart the teacher asked, “Why do you think that is your heart?”

“Because every time my Grandma comes to visit she pats me there and says, ‘Bless your little heart,’ and my Grandma wouldn’t lie.”

Gift Giving | Church on the Rock | St. Peters Missouri

Friday, January 8th, 2010

It rained the night before, the pavement was still wet.

It wasn’t as cold as last week, but the sky was still grey.

We’ve been hearing about this day for weeks, and we’ve been preparing for it also.

Buying gifts, wrapping and bringing them to church.  I put our gifts in a box and went on with my plans.  Saturday a call came to wrap presents and people showed up. A week before the young people wrapped over a thousand presents.

It was grey, it has rained and the pavement was wet, when I arrived to take pictures I could see that nothing had stopped the flow of what needed to happen early Sunday morning…

A tent with heat had risen in the night and boxes and boxes and boxes of wrapped presents were brought out to the tent, marked for age and set into a well organized pattern inside the tent….then we waited.

After the church service all children aged zero to twelve were invited into the tent to receive a free present.

I was once again privileged to take pictures.  To capture the emotion of the day, and to capture those amazing children receiving maybe their only gift this Christmas.

One woman came out of the tent thanking everyone in her path..she was so blessed!

Like a well oiled machine 1800 presents awaited a child’s arms to take them home.

The day may have been dreary and damp but the spirits were so high.  People were so excited to be a part of such a great event.

Thank you to everyone who made this such an awesome event and for making the world a brighter place, even on a sunless day, the Son still shined!

Memador Albums | When Companies Close | For Photographers

Tuesday, January 5th, 2010

In starting this blog post I want to stress that this is directed more to the photograhers that I have directed to Memador then anyone else.

I’ve been told in the past two years I’ve mentored some new photographers starting out, I consider it being a friend and showing people the ropes. Helping them find their passion and figuring out if it’s really photography or not.

In those conversations I’ve directed people to an album company named Memador.

Memador was an awesome album company whose product was just a bit different then the rest, their pages were amazing and at every show it even brought other photographers over who loved the pages. Problem is.. as good of a product that Memador offered, Memador did not uphold the same practices in it’s business.

I am sad to report that Memador has closed, it has not merged with any other company as their automated emails and voice mails will tell you.

I spoke the Mark of GP Albums (the guy you are being directed to from Memador) today and the fact of the matter is indeed. Memador is closed. It is the printing company that is trying very hard to fulfill the orders that Memador left behind.

Mark was not trying to sell me anything, but he did, in depth tell me the details of what has happened.

I want to assure my clients that you will not and have not been affected by this closer.

Fact is, we had started in October looking at new album companies because we had an inkling of an idea that something was not right at the Memador camp.

In our conversations Mark told me that they had been using the same printer for years. That they in fact have the same page design as Memador, but not the same covers. I’ve asked for some samples and catalog and those are being sent out to me.

If you have any questions, please contact me. If you’d like guidance towards other album companies contact me also, we’ve seen a whole bunch of amazing companies out there and we are very sure you will find one of them right for you!

In closing, I feel bad about taking such a strong stand for a company that eventually has left people high and dry and had it not been for the heart of this printing company, I’m not sure where some people would be.

I’ve not received a call or a warning from anyone at Memador, they’ve all just disappeared.

I can only hope they will read this and know how sad they make the industry look.

As soon as we make our decisions on Album Companies I will let you all know. There is so much out there, either way I can assure you, as friends and as clients, we will continually be looking in your best interests…

Lisa B

Lisa Nikole | 365 The Project, The Commitment

Friday, January 1st, 2010

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Did you hear me? Are you awake yet? C’mon it’s 2010!

So, how many of you have kept your 2010 promise? I mean it’s just one day into it, but, really, whose backsteppin?

So, here’s the deal. I have this friend James and he told me he was going to do a 365 project. I thought good for James, but Lisa is wayyyyy tooo busy…He was all excited and kept mentioning it and one time asked me to join him “ahhhh, hmmm, well…ahhhh”

So New Years came and in no way was I thinking of James and his project. I mean I’ve seen a lot of 365 projects and I’ve seen just as many fizzle away. But when I went to bed last night…. I laid my Iphone next to my bed and thought… 365 why not. So I took this picture:

Hey, I figure I can’t leave a buddy hanging all by himself in a big big commitment…so here I am, and just to keep him honest I’m making him accountable also

Here is James 365 Gallery, make sure you keep up on him.

You know now, it’s kinda like competition right? Well, don’t tell him I said so!

Oh and me, you can find my 365 images right here: 365, The Project, The Commitment

Iphone pics all year long, random things and events in my life. Let me know what you think!